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4.2.4 Controlling habits

Elze07-07-14

A	Controlling self-control habits mentally and physically		yes	no
	Life is creating habits. The question is which ones.
1	As soon as we [dorsalthamic] have converted our sensory self-composed ideas, under by ourselves [hypothalamic] set conditions, into self [prethalamic] unchaining behaviour, we thereby have started [epithalamic] habits of self-created rules of behaviour and rituals. And with that we have given our IDentity - our Internal Design of the Interbrain* - spiritual hands and physical feet. Our ideas run like a red nerve leader-wire reticular networking through our [spiritual] thinking and [physical] doing [see ch. controlling]. Are your habits based on self-conscious ideas and conditions?
	If so, investigate to what extent they do not harm yourself and others and adjust this where necessary.	If not, investigate your motivation, to what extent it is based on extrinsic interests and/or influences and/or are unconscious and adjust it consciously as desired.
2	Egoists are narcissistic self-centered ostriches who look no further than their self-esteem in the short term. They are so super ego-centric focused on being the star that they can't see that it's lonely at the top and risk falling into a black hole. Are your habits based on similar ideas?
	If so, think about the consequences in the short and long term, make your choice and adjust it where necessary.	If not, think about what your habits are based on and to what extent they are not damaging and adjust this if necessary.
3	Habits are as old as the cosmos. One of the surviving habits of the sapien-family is turning around the habits of sapien's most successful stars like a planetary comet [litt. tail-star], without verifying whether that is righteous and justifiable. Can you distance yourself enough from the [tail] stars in family society?
	If so, investigate to what extent you are doing this in a way that is not damaging to yourself and others, and adjust it where necessary.	If not, investigate your motives, what happens if you do so and what keeps you from changing it.
4	Humanists are bright-sighted people who have an eye for the self-esteem of themselves and others in the short and long term. The lifesavers for by ostrich egoism raiding [tail] stars. Are you constantly available for selfish ostriches?
	If so, think about the harmful consequences for yourself and others if you continue to do so, and adjust this in a humane way.	If not, find out to what extent you are a selfish ostrich yourself, or are humanely engaged, and adjust this where necessary.

B	Controlling self-control habits mentally and physically		yes	no
5	According to the division into brilliant little stars and dirty little tail stars [comets] that orbit around them planetarily, the codes of conduct, habits and rituals of the homo-sapiens are - like a bacteriophage thinking beast that, in a homo-geneticizing way, wants to rule zygotically over everything that is alive and so, in a devilishly paternalistic way, deifies itself maternalistically - focused on surviving as successfully as possible in the right-of-the-strongest culture of Father Familias violently [litt. violent-DADic] led right-of-the-majority. Quite different from the codes of conduct, habits and rituals of his humane-righteous oriented successor and counterpart [defined by me as hetero humanisimus], which are focused on developing as peacefully as possible into a self-and others-non-damaging co-operating identity-and-society. Do you know at what starting point your habits are based on?
	If so, investigate to what extent this has been influenced by yourself and/or others damaging elements and adjust this in an equitable manner where necessary.	If not, investigate to what extent you are focused on success formulas, recognition, winning and the influence of the majority and put this into a historical perspective.
6	Homo sapiens has the condition that the strongest determines the codes of conduct, habits and rituals of others [see 4.2.2/6-7]. The right to self-determination over one's own ideas, conditions, behaviour and habits is an abomination to him [see 4.2.2/11-12]. With the ancient ideas in the education politics of Chinese leaders in mind, he dictates, like a Roman Father Familias, Chinese codes of conduct, habits and rituals to 'his' family business and insinuates that this is 'his' customary law. An education politic that is based on not being able to keep eGypsic Mäat in itself and therefore leave others in the dark about how you have to do A(dapt) without B(oss/control) making B(e fed up) with [in Dutch Baäl-t]. Ra-Ra..., says the self-divine homo sapiens, see how to do that. Whoever fits the shoe, put it on. Ha-Ha, says the Hetero Humanisimus, I have an answer to that. Do you know how to attune your codes of conduct, habits and rituals to your own ideas and conditions, without Superego*-centric [family] leaders and [sapiens] followers -who want uninhibitedly dictate you and others how to control yourself, but don't have the vaguest idea of doing so themselves- riding in the wheels?
	If so, investigate to what extent you are doing this in a yourself and others not damaging way and adjust it where necessary.	If not, investigate the connection between their selfishness and yours and release yourself from it in a non-damaging way.
7	Common law is an unwritten rule that everyone has the right to create and maintain habits. If not in sapiens culture. Unrestrainedly despotic as he is, homo-sapiens consider it his divine customary right to obsessively hunt down on the self-determination of others; and with that, on their customary rights. For that is what you get when having control over yourself is Chinese to you, but you want to be the great ruler; are you forced to rule as 'the great leader' over those of others. Are your habits righteous?
	If so, investigate to what extent your definition of righteous corresponds to not damaging yourself and others.	If not, investigate the cause, what you can and want to do about it and in what time-frame and adjust it as fairly as possible.
8	Do you mentally finally have access to self intrinsically developed ideas, conditions and codes of conduct and that physically, have automated in humane-righteous behaviour, habits and rituals, and fairly attuned to that of others, then you are confronted with 'familial' sapiens who try to attack and/or take away your self-determination, on the pretext that you don't have the right to self-determine self-developed habits, but have to submit to the customary law of PATER FAMILIAS, THE SUPEREGO-centric member of the family. That you are arrogant and haughty if you think you also have the right to self-developed customary law. And selfish if you're not just as reticularly tied up waiting for the selfish habits of THE BIG EGOÏST as his just-too-loyal/habitually family-slaves who, like bacteriophagous ostriches, deliberately turn themselves into thalamic donkeys, by automating themselves century after century un-consciously in 'ich-hab-es-nicht-gewusst' mode. Because from generation to generation they expect to be better off this way, but don't want to face their motives and now, as one big family egoist, ranting gyrusally, because they have reticularly networking, lost their original I-observations, goals and habits to paternalistic family habits, which makes them constantly feel threatened by those of others. So what now? Did you bring in the common law of Father Familias, the superego-centric egoist - whether or not thanks to your empathy for his neutr(in)al networking family-slaves - yourself through the back-door?
	If so, investigate where your responsibility ends and that of others begins, set yourself and others humane boundaries, watch out for cross-border behaviour, make a good habit of it and accept the consequences.	If not, investigate how you deal with the selfish motives of yourself and others internally and externally, how your internal and external network functions, whether improvement and/or better egoism-monitoring is necessary and adjust it if necessary.

By daily reflecting on the habits of yourself and others and how you and others deal with them, you can where necessary adjust in such a way that you prevent or minimize damage to yourself and others and achieve humane-righteous improvements.

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