Determining priorities | Own short term | Own long term | Others short term | Others long term | |
1 | What expectations have priority for you? | ||||
2 | Wich expectations are most important? | ||||
3 | What arguments do you have for that?* | ||||
4 | Which arguments are most reasonable? | ||||
5 | Which arguments respond to your starting position? | ||||
6 | Which arguments respond to your basic setup? | ||||
7 | Wat choice is an continuation of old family and environmental influences? | ||||
8 | What considerations do you have for the continuation of current family and environmental influences? | ||||
9 | With which choice do you get internal conflicts? | ||||
10 | With which choice do you get external conflicts? | ||||
11 | With which choice do you damage [mentally, physically, intellectually, practically, relativaly, economically, culturally, politically or otherwise] others? | ||||
12 | With which choice do you damage [mentally, physically, intellectually, practically, relativaly, economically, culturally, politically or otherwise] yourself? |
Making choices | personal | relational | professional | cultural | |
1 | Which choices do you prefer? | ||||
2 | What are your conditions? | ||||
3 | What do you select? | ||||
4 | What is your alternative? |
*multiple answers possible.
By regularly reflecting on the basis of which arguments you determine your priorities, and whether they correspond to your starting position and basic setup, you can define and adjust your priorities and choices according to your needs.