Depression is not dealing well with the given circumstances. Is not taken enough distance from unreasonable people and situations mentally and physically. Is a mechanized process of being sad that something goes the way it is going and there is no hearing for your criticism and indignation and that - from the point of view of the other (s) [how dare you criticize me/us and get angry with me/to us] - to aim at yourself by giving up showing your criticism and indignation to an environment that does not want to know anything about it anyway, but then internally continues to do so indefinitely. Instead of, with dislike from unreasonable people and situations, distancing mentally - and where possible physically - and looking at what you might be able to do.