A family is a collection of identities that, through reproduction and/or society, genetically and/or administratively are attuned to each other to a certain degree and as such show together one single family identity face. The connectedness of this collection of identities is determined by the free space that each identity has at its disposal to develop its own operating system in an equitable manner.
The connectedness decreases as the free control space is smaller and/or the free self-control space is unjustly distributed in favor of one identity and group and to the detriment of that of others. An unreasonably divided control space, in which one identity and group has [neutrinally] a lot and the other [atomically] has little to divide and [molecular] is forced to maintain this unreasonable division in [atomically-molecular] connected state, leads to [organis-(m)-ing illusary connection and damaging (self) management.
The connectedness increases selectively to those [human] identities and groups that make an effort to fairly support and support other identities in their efforts to achieve a fair distribution of free space and self-government and, in a non-damaging assertive manner, set limits to damaging (self-) management.